If you live your life as your unfiltered self, it will make you appreciate your real self more, as well as accept it. This will help you discover your true nature.
Opening up about your thoughts, your fears, and what you love in front of the people who matter to you can go a long way towards helping you gain your true self.
Lies don't make for a perfect foundation for a potential relationship.
Remember that you want to stop looking for love. You can't succeed if you see potential "love" every time you go on Tinder. They will only serve as temptation.
Sure, physical appearance is an important factor in attraction. However, it isn't the only one.