If you genuinely like him, you may want to develop long-term plans with a guy. One perfect example is planning a trip together a few months in advance.
If you can barely get your man close to your life, then there are some questions about the his true intentions.
The meet-ups should be mutually convenient for the two with sacrifices made to see that the two of you are in the right direction.
Some guys prefer to hang out with women more than men. You should be suspicious of your man's company and party friends who are female.
Tons of excuses from the man means that he is not decided about having you as his one and only.