A woman who once steered clear of men with wealth, labeling them "entitled" in a relationship, has had a change of heart. She's now encouraging all women to date a man with money, let him take them out on lavish dates, and use him as a "bank" as long as possible since all men are going cheat anyway.
A Shift in Perspective - A Woman Who Always Avoided Dating Wealthy Men Is Now Urging Women To Only Date Them
In a recent video, TikToker Jesse Preston (@xjesseprestonx) confessed that she used to believe avoiding wealthy men would be advantageous to her dating life. Instead, she opted to date men who didn't have as much money.
She says: “I used to think that I was doing myself a service, a whole a.s, service, by saying that I don’t date men with money.”
Jesse's Reflections on Dating Men of Wealth
While dating men with wealth may be tempting for many women, Jesse acknowledges that it's not trouble-free.
She once believed that dating men with less money was better since they didn't act the same way as men with more money in relationships.
Wealthy Men Tend To Be “Entitled”
Jesse explains that she used to avoid men with money because they tend to be entitled in relationships. She argues that these men believe that their wealth inherently entitles them to special treatment and privileges.
“They Wear the Pants In the Relationship”
Another reason why Jesse avoided dating rich men is that she believed they tend to think that having money gives them the power to "wear the pants" in the relationship and control the woman's decisions.
“They Can Buy Their Way Out Of Troubles”
Jesse highlights another valid reason why a woman may avoid dating wealthy men, as they often feel entitled to cheat and believe their money can help them get away with it. If caught, they may try to make amends by buying expensive gifts or treating the woman to luxurious vacations.
“They Can Buy Their Way Into Your Pants”
Another reason why Jesse tends to avoid dating rich men is that they often use their wealth to manipulate and entice women. Expensive gifts, dates, and vacations can make it easier for them to get intimate with women compared to men who may not have as much money.
A Change of Heart
Despite her previous stance, Jesse has undergone a change of heart and now fully embraces the idea of dating men with money – a complete 180 from her earlier position.
Would You Rather Date A Wealthy or A “Broke” Man?
In a moment of self-reflection, Jesse poses a question that challenges her earlier beliefs about dating wealthy men, asking whether she would prefer a cheating rich man or a “broke” man whom she has to pay for on dates.
Without any hesitation, Jesse declares that she would choose to date a man with money, even if he may cheat, over a man who would let her pay for their dates.
Dating for What? Jesse's Candid Thoughts on Men Who Can’t Pay
According to Jesse, there is no point in dating a man who does not take her out on dates and pay for them. "What the f..k am I dating for?" she asks.“I’m dating myself? I’m courting myself? I’m taking myself on dates? I’m paying for me or I’m paying for you and me?”
“I’m Still Gonna Get Cheated On Anyway”
Paying for her own dates is not the only problem Jesse has with men with less money. She argues that it's not worth being with someone who doesn't spoil her on dates since all men cheat at some point, regardless of their wealth.
No Time To Waste with “Little Young Thundercats”
Jesse emphasizes that she’s “way too old to deal with these little young Thundercats” who think they have the upper hand in relationships. She confidently asserts, "Honey, I've been there, I've seen it all."
The Games Men Play
Jesse also expresses her frustration towards men who play games to cheat, believing that they can “outsmart a woman's intuition” with lies.
She adds that men who cheat often resort to using cliché lines such as "I fell asleep" or "my phone died" as an excuse, and she responds with disbelief, saying, "Bullsh.t, bullsh.t. You did not fall asleep, your phone did not die."
“We Know When You’re Being Slimy”
Jesse has a clear message for men who try to deceive women:
“Save the lies for your mama who believes you. She has to love you no matter what you do, I don’t, I will not tolerate buffooneries.
Jesse's Final Thoughts on Dating Wealthy Men
In the end, Jesse's takeaway from her video is the following: “Date a man with money and let him take you out on dates and let him try to buy his way into your pants because they all are dogs, they’re all gonna cheat and they’re all scum anyway!”
“You’re gonna treat me like a prostitute, I’m gonna treat you like a bank.”
Men with Less Money Are “Mean”
A thought-provoking comment from one viewer advised women to steer clear of men who are financially struggling, as they tend to direct their anger about their financial situation toward their partner.
“The broke ones are MEAN,” they suggested, “they’re mad that they’re broke & they’ll somehow make it your fault.”
Alternative Perspective on Men and Cheating
One user had an alternative perspective from Jesse, arguing that she’s exactly the type of woman that men cheat on.
They wrote, “They don't ‘all’ cheat, but based on what you have said, they all’ cheat on you. What energy are you giving out to the world?”
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