A woman recently stirred up controversy with her bold dating advice for young women, advising them to steer clear of men in their upper thirties and not be impressed by their wealth or how they treat ladies, as this is simply normal behavior for an "old man.”
TikToker Naomi Rossman (@naomi_rossman) posted a short video arguing that young women shouldn't fall for the charms of older men and describing those who only learn this the hard way as "stupid."
An older man dating a young woman in her lower 20s is likely immature, doesn’t want to grow up, and nobody his age wants him, according to her.
“If a man in his upper thirties is asking you out and you are in your like lower twenties and you're not like 29, 28, 27, just know nobody his age wants him and he's dating younger on purpose cause he doesn't have to grow up,” Naomi says.
She also claims that younger women are simply looking for fun in a relationship and don't want anything serious, which means they won't have to ask an older man to marry them or push him to advance in his career.
“You're not going to be talking about a ring and bothering him about a ring or bothering him about his job because you're just having fun and you're just happy that he has a f...king place to stay.”
Naomi isn’t holding back in her TikTok video, arguing that young women shouldn’t be impressed by older men's white sheets, as this is just normal for a "f...king old man" in that age range.
She asserts that older men who date women in their early twenties are looking for a young partner who won't challenge them to grow or achieve, but will still be impressed by anything they do.
“And don't be the stupid girl that finds out too late,” Naomi advises.
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The comments section lit up with lively debate following the video, with viewers taking sides in two distinct camps.
Naomi's advice clearly didn't sit well with some viewers, who took to the comments section to suggest that she's "hurt," "lonely," and an "old lady" who's struggling to cope.
“Who hurt you?” one commenter asked.
“Someone is lonely,” a second suggested.
“Don’t listen to the old lady,” a third advised.
“Woman who's about to hit the wall coping right there,” a fourth wrote.
“Lies…. You just don’t want an older man with a younger woman,” a fifth commented.
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“Not my Dad asking my mom out… 34 she was 21. Was a while ago but they happy and I’m one of 5,” a sixth chimed in.
On the other hand, some viewers supported Naomi's perspective on younger women dating older men, with one commenting, “Never a truer word said.”
“100% true,” another agreed, sharing their own experience, “I started seeing my man when I was 25 and he was 32, and 4-5 years ago we started fighting about the same things over and over and over.”
Someone else wrote, “I wish TikTok existed when I was 18 to warn me.”
From the comments, it's clear that this is a subjective matter that depends on an individual's perspective, and whether one chooses to embrace the idea of "age is simply a number" is entirely up to their personal preference.
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