When you are into a guy, you definitely ask the question: how to know if he thinks about you?
The good thing is that you don't need to be a mind reader just to know it. There are ways for you to know. Some of which can be easily noticed if you observe that guy.
Listed below are the most obvious signs you need to watch out:
Everything reminds him of you
You know that a guy thinks about you when he sees or does something and the first thing that comes to his mind is you. For example, he reads a joke or an article from the internet and shares it with you because he knows you'd enjoy it. Or send you a meme because he knows you will find it hilarious.
Whenever you like a guy, whatever activity you do will also bring him to your mind, right? You see, it's the same for guys.
If he does this to you, well, you should put a check on this first strong sign. Keep reading; this will get even better.
Seeing you makes him very happy
I, as a relationship coach, believe that a guy is always genuinely happy to see you when he thinks about you. He lightens up whenever you are around him. Then, it is another major sign to look out for.
Can you feel that energy he sends out? Have you ever had that weird feeling of happiness that you don't know where it is coming from? Does he keep eye contact all the time? Does it feel really good whenever you are around him? He feels exactly the same. If this is a check, then yep, you two are definitely vibing.
He remembers specific things about you
Girls, we all know that we definitely like a guy who remembers even the littlest details about us. It is a gesture that we find very sweet. For example, you two went out, and he offered to buy you a drink. He then bought you your favorite drink even though you only casually mentioned it once, but he remembered it anyway.
Think about this, would someone really care about you if he keeps on forgetting things about you? Like you told him about it several times, but he just can't seem to remember it. That kind of guy doesn't care nor think about you. Simple as that. Now, proceed to the next one.
He wants to know everything about you
When you like a nice guy, you just can't get him off your mind; you simply would want to know more about him. It's the same vice versa. Like an addict, your mind is always focused on the person, and you desire to get to know them and learn what they are about. Perhaps you are also compulsively stalking him online since you want to know everything about him.
Admit it; you've done this before. And if you also marked this, then proceed to the last one.
He admits he thinks about you a lot
What's more obvious than a guy telling you directly that he thinks of you? Since most of the guys are not really vocal, you are one lucky girl if your guy tells you what he truly feels. In this case, you don't need to overthink and nor confuse yourself if he's giving you mixed signals. You have the assurance to yourself that yes, he is thinking of me.
Still not sure how to know if he thinks about you?
All right then, here are 20 more clues to show he is thinking about you a lot:
- If he calls/texts you often
- He often comments on your social media posts and photos
- He shows high interest in your daily life
- He brings you free food or drinks randomly
- He gives you compliments frequently
- He speaks with you more than anyone else around
- He makes sure to be near you whenever possible
- He tries hard to make plans with you
- He shares intimate stories about himself
- He spends money on gifts for you
- He buys you flowers
- He takes pictures of you
- He takes selfies with you
- He asks about you from your mutual friends
- He sends messages through social media frequently
- He texts you late at night
- He checks up on you via phone apps
- He goes shopping for you
- He offers to pay for dinner
- He looks forward to seeing you again
Now, I hope these tips will help you understand better if he thinks about you or not. However, please note that these are merely guidelines.
If you notice these signs of attraction, then you can be pretty sure you are on his mind all day, every day.
But if you notice none of these telling signs, he probably doesn't think about you that much.
So, how many signs were you able to check?
If you got at least a bunch of them, then that's really awesome. Remember that it takes both sides to do the work in order for the romantic relationship to last in any relationship. Communication and honesty are the key.
Nicole Graham is a relationship expert at Womenio.com. She is helping women grow into their best selves so they can be confident and bring more love, passion, and purpose to their lives. Nicole enjoys studying the psychology of love and is passionate about writing on them. She offers helpful tips and advice to help overcome any relationship issue, whether you’re single or already in a relationship.