Guys are thirsty most of the time because they are wired to be like that. It's in equal parts nature and nurture. Compared with women, they are definitely more likely to think about sex for most of the day. This is because, first, he's wired to think about 'procreation', and second, society has given guys a pass for being this thirsty for sex.
If you've heard the phrase "sow his wild oats" used in reference to a guy, it means he's had quite a bit of sexual experience and is probably now ready to settle down. Male sex drive works differently than female. It makes them want to pass their genes on to as many women as they can to make their bloodline last.
This urge to procreate doesn't just go away. Men evolved this way, and even in modern society, while some men have become a bit more discreet, some are still indiscriminate in their' sowing of oats'. It's only that most of their oats don't get sowed in fertile lands but on their bedsheets.
When not busy with sowing, they think about it most of the time, too. This is probably why guys are called 'thirsty dude' and 'horny' more than girls. Of course, this doesn't mean that girls are not sexual. They are, too. It is not unusual for a girl to be hornier than her boyfriend. It's just that it's been socially acceptable for a long time that guys are sexual creatures. They can show their thirst all they want, and people would just admire his sexual drive. If a woman does it, it's a different story.
What Does It Mean When A Guy Is Thirsty
When a guy is thirsty, it means that he's feeling horny and itchy. Basically, it means that he wants to have sex. Failing that, he probably needs to masturbate to let out some steam. When we call a man thirsty, it's probably because they like to watch adult movies. This is because they need some sort of help with their equipment, especially in solo expeditions.
Once he's able to do this, he will feel back to his normal self. It will also most likely get his mind back on track. One thing about men is that they're simple creatures. Once they stop thinking with their libido, they will eventually function like regular human beings.
How Can You Tell If A Guy Is Thirsty
You can tell that a guy is thirsty if he's constantly talking about sex, looking at sexy women online, commenting on their photos and posts, checking out any girls passes by him, or can't stop talking about girls he would like to hook up with.
If your boyfriend is thirsty, he will probably drink from the most preferred and available tall drink of water, which is you. He will want to touch you and kiss you, even if you're out in public. Then, he will most likely hurry home with you.
How Do You Respond To A Thirsty Guy
The way you respond to thirsty guys is always up to you. As women and girls, we have a choice in this matter. So if someone you don't know or don't want to know makes some kind of advance, you can always tell them no. If they don't listen, you can tell them no with extreme prejudice.
If he's your boyfriend, and you want to help him feel better (and feel good yourself), you should probably enjoy the procreating activity with him (with protection, of course). It's always better to be safe than sorry.
If you don't feel up to it, you can also just help your boyfriend out without putting any of his body parts inside yours. This way, you get to help him release some of his tension.
Signs Of A Thirsty Guy
Some signs of a thirsty guy include texting you in the wee hours of the night, randomly checking in every couple of months, changing any innocent topic into a sexual innuendo, checking you out if they think you're not looking, etc.
How To Make A Guy Thirsty For You
It's not too hard to make a guy thirsty for you. For example, you can post sexy photos or videos of yourself on Instagram, Tik-Tok, or other social media where he follows you. Teasing a guy is also quite effective to make him thirsty.
Guys love a good chase. If you want to make him thirsty for you, you have to set up the bait- yourself- and make him either wait for you or go after you. Don't make it easy for him. Make him work for it.
What Does Thirst Trapping Mean
Thirst trapping means to set up a picture or an image of yourself so that people- or more specifically, men- look at you. It is used to entice a response, like praise, compliment, or other forms of responses that are often sexual in nature.
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Nicole Graham is a relationship expert at Womenio.com. She is helping women grow into their best selves so they can be confident and bring more love, passion, and purpose to their lives. Nicole enjoys studying the psychology of love and is passionate about writing on them. She offers helpful tips and advice to help overcome any relationship issue, whether you’re single or already in a relationship.