Players are willing and able to do anything to get what they want. He may text every day or only on occasion. It is not always possible to tell based solely on his frequency of texts, so it is essential to observe his other actions.
Every player has their own style. There are the players that are trying to manipulate emotions and make the girl believe they are in love, and this kind of guy texts a lot and acts in a way that would make you think he's genuinely sweet.
On the other hand, there are players who are forthcoming and honest about their desire to have sex. You would only hear from someone like this when he wanted to hook up.
But there are a lot of factors, so let's dive deeper and find out if a player would text every day or what that means.
How a Player Would Text You
A player is someone afraid of commitment. He is playing a lot of girls at the same time because he's scared of being tied down. But would a player text you every day? Or would he consider that too much of a commitment, as well?
Well, if he's a player, he would definitely have a bad habit of sending texts out to every girl who catches his interest. However, every day seems to be a bit much, doesn't it? Because while he may send the same message to ten different numbers, that doesn't mean that he's going to do this every day.
If he's a bored player in the pandemic, maybe. A real player will be too busy going out (for real) with girls. Texting every day is also kind of too much dedication and constancy, and these are words players are most afraid of.
Players won't text you every day unless they think you require it for some reason. They're the type to send you a sweet and/or seductive text at 1 a.m. and then just disappear. They'd like it if you replied, but they won't be that pushy.
There are certain signs if a guy is a player. For example, the way they use your name (or don't). Most players like to call you 'baby', 'sweetheart', 'babe,' and other such monikers. This is so they can avoid confusion about your name. After all, they can call ten different girls' baby,' no sweat.
So if a guy texts you every day, we can probably rule out players. We can just decide between sweetly attracted and borderline obsessed.
How a Guy Would Text When He Has A Crush On You
The same way they are in real life, guys are also taciturn in the texting world. They hardly ever send emojis with their texts, and they only text you when they need to. So if he sends you a text that's not immediately important, it means he wants to let you know that he likes you.
His interest might have been expressed via text because he's shy. Shy guys rarely ask girls out on a proper date. They don't want to risk you saying no. So if he's shy and a bit awkward, he'd want to test the waters by texting you first before actually asking you out. And even his texts will not be outright flirtatious. He'll maybe text you good morning- every day.
A shy guy will have to gather his courage for a long time before he can finally ask his crush out. His texts will be overly respectful, but he will dang sure, use your actual name properly.
So if he texts you every day, he could be a shy guy who has a crush on you. He wants to let you know of his interest by making his presence known (on your phone) and by making you think of him every time he sends a text. He will be encouraged greatly by a reply, even if you only send him a smiley face.
How a Guy Would Text When He Is Obsessed With You
If a guy sends you text messages every day even when you obviously don't want them to (as evidenced by the lack of reply), he is definitely NOT a player. Players won't text you every day if you don't reply. Guys are usually easy to encourage and discourage, so if he doesn't get the hint, he's probably obsessed with you. I don't think I need to tell you that this kind of obsession is unhealthy and potentially dangerous.
Even when someone texts you every day, you are not obliged to reply if you don't want to. So if a guy continually harasses you by texting every day, and if it makes you uncomfortable, be direct and reply that you're not interested. Say it gently but make it clear that his interest is not reciprocated. Here is more on how to turn down unwanted flirty texts.
If he continues to bother you, block him or change your number immediately. That should make things clear for him. However, if it still escalates even after you've changed numbers, you should report him to the police.
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What Does It Mean When A Guy Texts You Every Day
It means that you've caught his interest, and he wants to let you know about it. Rest assured, though, if you like him and he texts you every day, he's not a player. A player considers texting every day too much of a commitment. He tends to spread himself around, yes, but he will consider it too tiresome to type messages and send them to you every single day.
If you like him, and he texts you every day, it means that he wants you to think about him. When he ups his game and sends you jokes, it means he wants you to smile once you read his messages.
So if you feel the same way, stop asking yourself whether he's a player or not. Because unless he's bored and considers texting his hobby, he is as sincere in his affections as you are.
Nicole Graham is a relationship expert at Womenio.com. She is helping women grow into their best selves so they can be confident and bring more love, passion, and purpose to their lives. Nicole enjoys studying the psychology of love and is passionate about writing on them. She offers helpful tips and advice to help overcome any relationship issue, whether you’re single or already in a relationship.