In this guide, I am going to share my personal experience on what has worked for me when it comes to getting a man to notice you and like you, and how you can use these tricks and tips in your own life so that you too can find love!
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The secret to get a man to notice you and like you
The secret to getting a man's attention is simple: You have to make him want you.
The first step is making sure that he knows what's up by giving off the right signals and being clear about your intentions (and not just in a sexual way). If there are any doubts, then it might be best for both of you if you move on now before things get complicated or too messy.
In the next step, you have to be physically attractive so that he can't help but notice your beauty! This means dressing well for yourself (not what society tells us), getting a good haircut if needed or just doing something different with our hair altogether like dying it pink, or whatever makes YOU feel great about how you look.
The third step is to be social and outgoing. If you're not the type of person that likes going out, then this might take some work on your part but it's worth doing because otherwise he wouldn't notice how great a catch YOU are!
The fourth step is to be confident. This means not being afraid of rejection, or that he might think you're too fat/too skinny for him and so on, because this will only make things worse in the end! When you are self assured, it radiates outwards and makes others take notice because they can sense your confidence in yourself without even trying! This applies not only when meeting new people but also on an everyday basis with friends or family members.
The fifth step is to be open and honest. This means not playing games or being coy with him, because he will sense it if you are doing this for attention! Be yourself 100% of the time. This means not trying to act like someone you are really NOT! He will sense through it and this could backfire on the end result so don't do that at all!
The sixth step is not being needy, or clingy! This means that if a man wants space from time-to-time then give it to him, because otherwise this could turn into an unhealthy relationship in the end which nobody needs at all!!
The eight tip is to be your best self. This means that you should always try to look and feel as good on the outside, because it will reflect in how others see you!
More tips to get a man's attention
Another way that I've found success getting men interested me was through humor.
One way is to laugh loud from time after time, so he knows just where his jokes land--and if possible, even though his jokes aren't funny, laugh at them without hesitation.
You can also get a man's attention by being vulnerable.
Showing that you are human, which means admitting your faults or mistakes instead of trying too hard to be perfect all the time. This also includes letting him know when he has done something wrong too! It can be hard to admit a fault, but it will show him that you are not perfect and he is more likely to take notice.
I also found success getting men interested in me by being a little mysterious.
This means holding back on your thoughts or feelings for awhile so they don't know what's coming next. If there has been a lull in the conversation, this is when it's time to be mysterious.
The next way to get a man's attention is by being a little playful.
This means teasing him and not taking everything so seriously, but still having boundaries in place to keep things appropriate for the situation or relationship you are trying build with this guy!
Share your interests openly without feeling too much pressure about it because chances he will share them as well. It's important that both of you feel comfortable enough around each other before getting into deep conversations. When I say "sharing" I mean talking passionately/openly while also listening to the other person.
Make a good impression.
The best way to make a good impression on a man is to be yourself. If you are a confident person, show it! If you are shy, don't be afraid to let that show. Just make sure you are not too shy because it can come off as being standoffish and rude!
Have a flirtatious body language.
My best trick is to make eye contact and smile. It's a simple way to show that you are interested in the person without coming off as too forward or desperate!
If you’re not sure what to do with your hands and are feeling nervous, that is when fidgeting happens, get a drink from the bar to hold to keep yourself from fidgeting. This is a quick fix though; you will need to work on your confidence and flirtatious body language.
Another body language trick to get his attention is to touch his arm or hand when you are talking, or to lean in close to him. If you see that he likes your moves, he might do the same to you!
If all else fails, be direct.
If a man is not noticing that it's obvious how interested and attracted we are then sometimes being more forward can help get his attention in our direction - but make sure this doesn't come off as too desperate or needy because men don’t like clingy woman.
What Are You Looking For in a Man?
Are you looking for a boyfriend or something more serious? That makes a big difference. If you are just looking for a night out to have fun, going to clubs and bars is not a bad idea. At a bar and a club a lot of the club goers are a bit drunk and tipsy and are sort of crazy. People tend to dance like they have one thing only on the brain. A lot of going to bars is picking someone up for a one-night fling. You act very friendly with a guy, more than you normally would. You give him a little smile. And you keep glancing at him making sure you make eye contact with him.
Volunteering in a fundraiser is good way to meet men. Although it won't just be men that you are in contact with. You can flirt with a man who happens to get your attention while you are volunteering, but be part of the help because you want to, not just for the flirting; although flirting can be a plus. Again, you'll be paying a bit more attention to the man than the other people you are working with.
When you are working with the man give him more light glances, give him small smiles. When you are just talking body language speaks a lot. You may automatically pay a bit more attention to a man while doing the volunteer work. You'll talk to him more, give him a friendly smile that lasts a little longer than it would if you were smiling to another person.
You tap him on the shoulder, rub his shoulder, put your arm around him, grab his hand, these are just a few things. Some people make friendly gestures like this with people they enjoy in general, so it makes a difference how you interact with him. It makes a difference on going out of your way to flirt and be friendly with him when you otherwise would not need to even be around him.
Know Your Intentions
Your personality or reaction to a mans personality could capture a man. Giving him attention is a good way to get a mans attention, but depending on what you want with him makes a difference. Being friends with him is a great beginning if you are looking in the long run, even if you are not looking for something permanent. What you don't want to do is lead a man on if you have different ideas on what you are both looking for. Make sure you are clear on that.
Finding Men at Church
If you are not looking for something more serious, looking for a man at church is not the best idea. Unless you are looking for more to life in general. If you are after something much more committed and just trying to get a mans attention at church, be aware of who he hangs out with. Smile at him. Make eye contact with him. Become friends with him and his friends. Take things slow. This is church so you are not jumping into anything too soon. Church is church, not a singles place to hook up.
This sounds very cliché, but it's true. If you want to get a man to notice you it helps if you are being yourself. Men will pick up on that too. Even if you are shy and awkward, a man worthwhile of your time is going to find it charming. He'll go out of his way to help you open up. If you are more outgoing, you probably don't need any tips on getting a man to notice you. But if you are, you are going to reach out to the man you are interested in on his terms.
Don't act shy if you are not and don't try to be crazy if you are more shy. You do want to be yourself. He'll either be attracted to your for you and your appearance, or he won't.
What do you do to get a man to notice you? Where do you go find men?
The best way to get a man's attention is by being confident, flirty and direct. If you're not sure how he feels about your advances or if it seems like all of these tips are going nowhere then just ask him out! Men love when women take charge so don't be afraid to go for what they want - even though that might sound scary at first.
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