It's the moment we all hope for, where our partner kisses us, and we melt into their arms. It feels like fireworks or a sparkle of fairy dust on your skin. Whether it was a first date or an old routine, that one kiss holds so much meaning. But what if he didn't really enjoy it?
I know from experience that some guys are more comfortable showing their affection through physical contact than words. He would rather hold me tightly after the kiss and make me feel all the emotions he can't say.
We can always ask them if they liked the kiss but most of the time they will say yes and it may mean nothing because he is just polite.
Often, the way a guy reacts to your kiss is determined by how he kissed you. This means that he usually likes to be kissed the same way as how he does it.
One thing I've learned from my dating life is that not every kiss will be like fireworks going off but if it feels good even for a second, just go ahead and enjoy.
How do you know if he likes kissing you
As a general rule, a guy who enjoys kissing you will establish intense eye contact with you before and after the kiss, because he wants to show that he cares and acknowledges the moment.
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And now, let's investigate a little deeper all the telltale signs.
9 signs that your guy enjoyed your kiss
There are many signs that would tell you if he liked the kiss and I'm here to aid you in your quest for answers.
Here are the top signs that he enjoyed the kiss:
1. He is turned on while kissing
He grabs you tighter, or pulls back to look at you and flashes his million-dollar smile. He kisses you again and again. He doesn't just give a little smooch on the lips but instead has his tongue in your mouth. You feel he is turned on down there.
His eyes are wide and he's smiling from ear to ear. He can't stop touching you or it would seem like his hands are on the move when they weren’t a second ago. He says “I love that! I wanna do more of this, let me kiss your neck now." Or something similar.
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2. He focuses on kissing you slowly making the foreplay last longer
Most women assume that men want to fast-forward to the end when it comes to lovemaking, but not all men want that. Kissing is considered a very intimate act, and in most cases, when it lasts longer, it leads to amazing lovemaking.
There could be two reasons a man does not like kissing or hardly takes the time kissing you. Some men are just ignorant, and these type of men hardly take their time in foreplay.
On the other hand, he may not be interested in how you kiss. Though in some cases, women talk about men who are just not willing to take their time to please them.
The advantage of being a good kisser is that a man will be more interested in keeping the session longer, making the experience amazing.
3. Maintaining eye contact before and after kissing
Eye contact is the most powerful tool in initiating a kiss, and it creates a mental connection between two people. Eyes are said to be the gate to the soul.
A man interested in your kissing will want to look into your eyes making it more intense and intimate. You can instantly notice through his smile, facial expressions, and eyes how much he appreciates your kissing.
Some men take the intensity too far and kiss with their eyes open, but this may just be an innocent response to enjoying your kisses.
4. He touches and admires your face before kissing you
An impressed man will start by admiring your face without rushing into kissing. Though this does not necessarily happen in all men. When he is dazzled with your kisses, he will take his time doing a few small intimate things like stroking your hair, face, and head.
He knows using his hands will make the experience more intense and intimate, and the kisses are likely to last even longer.
If he loves your kissing, his hands will be busy.
5. He will kiss your lips and other parts of your face
There is always a sign when a man kisses you all over the face as opposed to only focusing on the lips. It shows he is feeling passionate and wants to explore more places to kiss.
Men love to be kissed and when he enjoys yours, he is going to show it back by kissing you all over.
Always kiss him back to show his efforts are appreciated, and this will take the enjoyment to another level. Kiss his lips, chin, cheeks, and all over his face.
6. He doesn't get tired of kissing you passionately for long
When impressed by your kisses, a man will put his heart into it. He will maybe start with a long passionate embrace and work his way around. He will try his best to make it intense.
When a man kisses you briefly, it could mean that there is a reason why he is holding back.
7. When a guy says he likes kissing you
Many men find it hard to express their true feelings, only a few will admit it. If he does call you a good kisser in any sort of way, then this is a clear compliment on your kissing techniques.
In most cases, men will say the truth when it comes to kissing and a compliment is a good sign.
8. His body language shows that he is nervous and can't wait to kiss you
Guys who know that you are better than them at kissing will often show nervousness which may show through their behavior.
They will show this through their bodily gestures and how they behave. For example, one might change his posture, place hands on the face or even touch the hair.
9. He will mirror you and put in the same energy as you do
A man can reciprocate the same energy as a way of making you feel good. Flattery makes a woman feel appreciated and will make her level it up.
Mirroring someone while kissing is a powerful tool when it comes to intimacy. It happens when your man copies your movements and positions while in those intimate moments.
He could be mimicking your movements, posture, gestures, and tone of speech. It means that he feels a special connection with you and loves how you kiss him.
He shows that he understands you and wants the same from you. It could also be a sign he is falling in love with you.
As a woman, keep your eyes open and check whether he is enjoying your kissing. It is one of the things that could lead him to take it to the next level.
When he looks so excited to kiss you, know you are doing it right!
When a guy wants to kiss you all the time
When a guy wants to kiss you all the time, it means that he really likes you, he loves the way you kiss him, he can't have enough of you, he wants you like crazy. It can also mean that he is turned on badly and want to make love to you.
In order to tell if a guy wants to kiss you, pay attention to his body language. For example: leaning in close towards you, touching your arm or hand, and also pay attention when he looks at your mouth. These are all signs that he is interested in kissing you soon!
When a guy talks about kissing you
In general, when a guy talks about kissing you, it means he is more attracted to you physically than romantically. More than likely true if he also talks about touching and other adult things. Guys usually don't talk about kissing when they are in love because this is something that happens naturally.
Guys know that girls like to talk about kissing and such, so they might talk about kissing in an attempt to seduce you.
If a guy talks about kissing you a lot, it means that he really enjoys kissing you (if you've already done it), or he just likes kissing more than average guys do.
Don't forget to look for the typical signs to make sure he wants to make love to you and not just use you.
What does it mean when a guy pulls you closer while kissing
A guy pulls you closer while kissing because he feels connected to you. He wants to get as close to you as he can, so he pulls your body to his. Maybe it's because he is in love with you. Also, the feeling of being so close makes him feel good too.
He enjoys the way your body feels. He can feel your breasts against his chest, and you can feel his package down there. It's very pleasurable for both of you.
Sometimes instead of pulling you closer, guys push their bodies against yours, which means the same thing.
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Nicole Graham is a relationship expert at Womenio.com. She is helping women grow into their best selves so they can be confident and bring more love, passion, and purpose to their lives. Nicole enjoys studying the psychology of love and is passionate about writing on them. She offers helpful tips and advice to help overcome any relationship issue, whether you’re single or already in a relationship.