Love is a crazy thing. It can happen at any time, anywhere, to anyone. Sometimes it's unexpected and other times it's something you've been dreaming about for years. But when it happens, we all want the same things in our relationships: to feel special and seen by someone who matters. To know that he is there for you no matter what life throws your way.
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But how do you make a man fall in love with you?
Here are 14 tricks that will help make sure he doesn't just like you... but loves you!
1. Dare to be different!
Men don't like desperate women. They hate it even more when you try to force stereotypes on them about what they should be. They are also completely uninterested in discussions about looks and health, but appreciate it when you are exciting, God forbid, a little wild. If he's interested, give him your number, but don't sit miserably by the phone waiting! The high value woman should really be tough, not just play it.
2. Be charming!
Forget about playing the role of Sleeping Beauty and Snow White! The man doesn't want to save you, he wants to appreciate you and be proud of you. Be pretty, be physically and mentally fit, make the most of yourself even if you are in a slump. Men love women who are able to make them laugh and who can make them feel comfortable. Don't be offended by his jokes, laugh with him and tease back.
3. Be mysterious!
It's an old mistake to try to impress him on the first date with your professional achievements, or worse, with what your ex-boyfriends did to you that made you go to the psychiatrist. Keep your little private secrets, if possible for a long time, even years, and slowly reveal the information about yourself from the deepest recesses of your soul. Every man loves the thrill of the hunt, new things and surprises that he can learn about you in tiny drops.
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4. Be open!
However, don't just be mysterious, be open! Let him discover you, let him get to know you, but stand by yourself whatever happens. A decent man likes a woman who has strong opinions and doesn't just nod her head to make a good impression. Of course, you should appreciate his ideas and take the time and energy to discuss them. Even fiery arguments, if done in a healthy way, can bring you incredibly close.
5. Be yourself and be real!
It sounds simple, but a lot of women try to change everything about themselves in order to please their partner, which is never the way to go if you want him really fall for your true self. Make it clear right at the beginning of the relationship that you are not Paris Hilton, Angelina Jolie or even Michelle Pfeiffer. You are you! Unique, special and unrepeatable. He needs to accept you for who you are! Believe me, you deserve to be loved for who you are and never let anyone change you to fit them!
6. Smile often!
Show your smile often with your true naturalness, from the inside out. Laugh out loud when the situation calls for it, but always sincerely. Men love a cheerful woman with a mischievous little twinkle in her eye. This is something they can never resist.
7. Be modest and elegant!
Feminism or not, we women love it when a man's old-fashioned elegance comes out once in a while and we can have a real knight in shining armour. For example: catch him by the arm during a slow walk, etc. A little modesty never hurts. After all, a bubbling volcano makes the same kind of humming before it erupts in a fiery eruption.
8. Touch him often
Let the touch come naturally. A caress on the forehead, fingers on the forearm, a stroke in the hair, a gentle touch on the back of the neck. Believe it or not, they are incredibly appreciated. Maybe it reminds them of their mother's touch in childhood, or maybe it's just a welcome affirmation that they are important to someone. Whatever the reason, they love it just as much as we do.
9. Let him be a knight!
Maybe encoded in our DNA from ancient times, but the man who hunted, fished, carved caves, fought buffalo, and played a vital protective role thousands of years ago still feels the importance of it today. Give him small tasks to reinforce that feeling. If you can't carry a heavy bag, ask him to bring it into the house for you. When they cross the street, catch them by the arm, don't run ahead. Look for situations in your daily life to deepen his faith and awareness that you need him.
10. Don't swear!
As much as they like it when a woman is cool, they don't appreciate it when she uses overly dirty language and words. Of course, sometimes things slip out of our mouths, but be careful not to get vulgar.
11. Be naughty!
If a woman is shy, quiet and withdrawn, it is hard for her to be a mate. He will respect you if you can relax your tone, tease him, make a few dirty jokes, or send him some dirty pick up lines randomly. If you can be like that, don't hold back, he'll love it.
12. Be polite!
Guys like well-mannered girls with normal values. They appreciate it when you speak nicely to acquaintances. Know when, where, to whom and how to introduce yourself and what tone to use.
13. Appreciate when you are appreciated!
If he really is the one who knocked on your door and you think he will make all your hopes and dreams come true, don't be shy! Let him know that you appreciate him. Let him know with a smile, a gesture, a kind word or two that he is in the right place and that you are happy to be there for him.
14. Play hard, it is a game after all.
Relationships are probably one of the hardest games in life. Avoid tactics but at the same time be tough, don't let him take you for granted. And once you've won him, stick to him (in a good way).
In the end, what helps in getting a guy to fall in love with you is similar to what works in any relationship, even friendships: s elf-assurance, genuineness, sincerity, a sense of humor, and demonstrating to him how special you are. Over all, you want him to think you're a perfect catch, which is much simpler than you would think if you follow these tips.
Of course, it will not happen immediately, but it will happen if you know exactly what to do and are diligent with doing it. Keep these tips in mind and they will help you develop your relationship and eliminate the possibility of him cheating on you because what he wants is you and no one else.
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Nicole Graham is a relationship expert at Womenio.com. She is helping women grow into their best selves so they can be confident and bring more love, passion, and purpose to their lives. Nicole enjoys studying the psychology of love and is passionate about writing on them. She offers helpful tips and advice to help overcome any relationship issue, whether you’re single or already in a relationship.